Where Have I Been?

Well, that’s a question.  Lots of things have happened to me in the ensuing months since I got my net shut off.  Sir was unemployed for a few months after a semester in school.  We were struggling a lot with no income.  But he is now gainfully employed again and making more than at his last job.  So, that’s a plus.

However, things haven’t been so peachy between us.  We entered counseling to help deal with issues we’ve been having.  It doesn’t seem to be helping.  We still keep fighting over the same things.  I am not sure what is going on; if it’s the 7 year itch or what.  He spends so much of his free time on the computer talking to other people and so little of it with me.  He isn’t even really trying to be the leader anymore either.  I don’t know if he’s depressed or what is going on.  On one hand, it makes me sad, but on the other, I don’t really care anymore.  I’m tired of fighting for scraps.  We haven’t been in counseling long, so maybe it will pay off after a bit longer.

I’ll try not to let my blog get too depressing while we sort all this stuff out.  But if I’m not posting much, you’ll know why.



I wrecked my living room looking for the battery charger for my camera last night to no avail.  So, I couldn’t do the Sinful Sunday photo I had planned.  But I found this one on my old laptop that decided to suddenly start working again after being off for 4 months.  Sir took it while we were on vacation a few years ago.


Sinful Sunday

Click the lips to see who else is being sinful

Birthday Fun

I was sitting here thinking about what I was going to post for Wicked Wednesday.  My favorite birthday so far was the one shortly after I moved to be with Sir.  He took me to the park for a picnic.  The park here is very big, and very nice.  There’s paddle boats, mini golf, a carousel, tennis courts, a rose garden, places to fish.  After we ate, we rented a paddle boat and went up and down the river until I nearly fell out.  Then we played mini golf.  Last we rode the carousel because I love them, even now at 31.  Then we went home and had fun.  Lots of fun.  I found photographic evidence on my computer.  There’s also a video of me getting birthday butt floggings, but it was too big to upload.  So instead of me telling you about the fun we had, why don’t I just show you?

He winds up for the swing…
My butt is a bit red and stingy.  I don't know where that little bruise came from.
My butt is a bit red and stingy. I don’t know where that little bruise came from.
Click on the icon to see who else is being wicked.
Click on the icon to see who else is being wicked.

Fifty Shades of Meh

Still from Fifty Shades of Grey the movie.

I had the opportunity to go see it on Friday with a friend of mine.  And you know what?  I didn’t think it was altogether terrible.  Now, I have not read the books.  I tried and only got about three or four pages into the first one before the double crap stuff irritated the piss out of me.  So, my comments are strictly going to be reserved for the movie.  WARNING: SPOILERS AHEAD!
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